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Wednesday, September 5, 2012

The Pains And Joys Of Pregnancy

Compared to the two past pregnacies my wife had, this one I think is the hardest.  Though she also had some discomforts before like vomiting and nausea, not able to eat well and having food preferences, now her back pains have worsened and she's having shortness of breath.  There was even a point in her second trimester, that we had to go to her OB-GYNE  due to abdominal pains...

Complete bed rest without bathroom priviledge, that was the doctor's order. The doctor explained that she was having premature contractions which warranted medications too. She was advised to have a month of leave from work. During those days, I took care of her and my children’s needs including cooking and preparing food for them at night, before I go to work  and during weekends. I ran all the errands, bought all stuffs needed, payed the bills,  and  made the kids preoccupied just to keep them away  from their mom, considering her delicate condition. Thanks to my mother, she's there to take my place when I'm at work.

As the baby gets bigger and heavier, her complaints of back pains are becoming constant and frequent.  Though she already had those during her last pregnancies, they were more tolerable than what she's having presently.  She would always ask me to massage her back which I willingly and gladly oblige because I know that it makes her feel better.  I just hope and pray, that she would cope up with the pain, especially now that she's back to work.


So where’s the joy in it?  Well, seeing  and feeling our baby move, give funny shapes and molds to my wife’s tummy, the thought that in a way our little angel hears and feels us, and the eagerness to finally see the Lord’s blessing for the newest addition to our family... if that wouldn't bring smile to our faces and fulfillment to our hearts, then I don't know what would?

And besides, our children are worth all the sacrifices and challenges we face in life.  They will always be our pride and joy.  And we will forever give Him thanks for them.  Yahweh bless.  

14 comments:

  1. You are such a wonderful husband and Dad taking care of everything for your wife and children, sharing the pains and discomfort your wife is experiencing. After all the sacrifices I am sure there's overwhelming joy in all of you because God has shown you HIs love and miracle to you. God bless =)

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    1. I agree. Your family must be proud of you, bro!

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  2. hey mann nice blog .. m really impressed .. useful information ..

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  3. Children are gifts from God.

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  4. take pride of your kids and make sure to lead them to the right path.

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  5. Bow. You're a great Dad. Kids love your dad in return. Kudos to you.

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  6. i hope your wife gets better. and that she wont feel any discomfort anymore. Girls are really amazing for being able to go through all of this. it makes me love my mom even more.

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  7. Wow Ralph! Congratulations in advance. Yeah, there is this pain in pregnancy but definitely, there is more joy and laughter later on. God Bless!

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  8. I hope your wife will have a safe delivery. Just have her checked by the doctor if the pain persists.

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  9. Nothing beats the feeling of being a father or mother to your kids. The sacrifices are all worth of it. Yes, it's all based on my own experiences having 2 "makulit" kids hehe.

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  10. galing naman ng tatay...hope your wife reads your blog and be so proud of you...

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  11. I hope your wife gets better by the time she gives birth to your 3rd child. Leave everything to the Lord and He will take care of everything. ^_^

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  12. This is so heartwarming to read :) I can see that you are a responsible and loving father :) God bless you and your family!

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  13. great blog. i can see how you take care of your wife and family...

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